1. Exes make us better in our next relationships.
Our exes make us our better selves, because after we’re done with them, we keep thinking about them and picture all the various scenarios that could’ve been. These ‘what if’ questions teach us enough about what we did wrong and how we could’ve made it better.
These questions equip us for better understanding how we should’ve reacted in certain situations and that can make our next relationship smoother. Such experiences also teach us the mistakes that we should not repeat.
Think about situations where you messed up bad, and think of how you could’ve dealt with it like a pro. Next time, be that pro.